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Humans Of The Kitchen
Journey from Traditional Colombian and Jewish Kitchens to Inspiring Future Chefs

Meagan Lea Stout
Growing up in a “food desert” as one of nine children, I experienced food as both scarce and sacred. Despite this scarcity, food held a central place in our household and shaped our understanding of the world. We didn’t travel much, but we journeyed through food. Martin Yan, Jacques Pépin, and PBS were our windows to the culinary world. My mom would immerse herself in the cooking shows of Emeril and Julia Child, and suddenly our small kitchen felt connected to everywhere. One weekend, we would enjoy Peking duck; another, we would explore Moroccan cuisine, savor Vietnamese dishes, or chicken Kyiv, all prepared in our tiny kitchen in inner-city Houston, TX.
That’s where I learned empathy, culture, and connection. Food could take you somewhere, even if you never left home. I didn’t realize how much that meant until I left. I went off to study engineering, thinking I needed to find something else. But I missed it. I missed those weekends, that feeling, that sense of discovery. That’s when it hit me that I could create that anywhere, I could build that feeling again.
I’ve been cooking since I was 16, and 20 years later, I still haven’t left. I did some culinary school, but honestly, I learned the most in kitchens. High-level kitchens, Michelin-starred kitchens. That’s where you’re pushed, where you either grow or you don’t survive. The first time I stepped into a real restaurant kitchen, the French Room in Dallas, I remember thinking this is it. It felt like meeting my soulmate. And once you feel that, you don’t stop. You chase it. You want to understand it, get closer to it, become better for it.
Kitchens aren’t made for everyone, or at least that’s what people will try to tell you. I’ve had to fight through a lot, being a Black woman, being bold, being outspoken. I’ve dealt with bullying, racism, sexism, even assault, and then watching systems try to protect that behavior instead of people like me. But none of that broke me. It sharpened me. It made me steadier in who I am and made me want to open doors for people who look like me and have been told they don’t belong here. Because they do.
My passion for this is loud. Sometimes it’s honestly annoying. I’ve missed holidays, birthdays, time with my kid and my partner, and time for myself. There are moments I think about everything I’ve given up. But that need to cook, to learn, to evolve, it never goes away. I think I was just born this way.
You learn a lot through failure in this industry. I still remember the first time I got to put a dish on a menu. I was a pastry cook and made this rose macaron with a strawberry. I messed it up. I overcooked it, didn’t let it mature. The first plate went out and came right back. Trashed in seconds. I laugh about it now, but I will never mess up a macaron again.
There was a moment in a Michelin-starred kitchen when I was leading a station and got completely crushed during brunch. Tickets flying, not set up enough, chef on me nonstop. It got in my head, and I started to doubt myself. We had a quick second to step away for water, and my team just pulled me in, hugged me, and told me I was a badass. That was the fuel I needed to keep going.
That’s what kitchens can be at their best. Not just pressure, but people holding you up when you feel like you’re about to break. At the end of the day, this is a craft, but it’s also a community. I always ask my cooks if they are really in this or just visiting. When you are truly in it, when you care about the craft and the people, excellence follows.
Empathy is everything to me. We don’t talk about that enough in this industry. Kitchens have long been built on fear, ego, and exhaustion. But I don’t believe great food needs broken people behind it. You can have standards, you can have discipline, and still have humanity. That’s the kind of kitchen I want to build.
I’ve had moments I’m proud of, being named Rising Chef, becoming a sous chef in a Michelin-starred kitchen, and receiving a James Beard Fellowship. Those things matter. But what really stays with me is teaching. Seeing a cook who’s hungry to learn and being able to pour into them, that’s everything. That’s how this keeps going.
What I love most about restaurant culture is the sense of craft and shared purpose. A kitchen can feel like a small world built around discipline, creativity, and trust. There is something beautiful about a group of people from different backgrounds moving in rhythm toward the same goal, feeding others.
Restaurants are also one of the few places where culture, memory, and identity show up on a plate. I love the constant learning, the humility ingredients demand, and the way food can connect people who might otherwise never meet.
But at the same time, parts of the industry can be deeply frustrating. It needs less gatekeeping, less elitism, and less glorifying burnout. There are so many people doing incredible work behind the scenes who don’t get seen because they don’t know the right people. That has to shift.
Food is about connection, about culture, about people. And if we forget that, then we’ve already lost what made it matter in the first place.
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
Bottarga. It’s cured fish roe. It opened up the world of traditional preservation techniques like curing, drying, and fermenting.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Smoked Chicken Wings.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Trends exist for a reason. I don’t hate any of them if people love them.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
Any mother’s day brunch.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
Over caffeinated, pumped up my team, and didn’t stop flipping eggs until the doors closed.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Get a “glam team” that includes a therapist, a primary care physician, a nutritionist, and a group of grounded people who uplift you. Find those first before thinking about buddies.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Nigella seeds.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
Anything I make with pork shoulder.
About Your City!
Arlington, TX
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
In the DFW Starship bagels while you wait in line at Goldee’s BBQ IN Kennedelle. The Modern Museum of Art in Fort Worth. Dinner at Radici in Grand Prairie, a nightcap at Midnight Rambler at the Houle Hotel. Visit glow on the Dark Park in Farmers Branch with a little one.
The Difference Between Cooking and Leading
Humans Of The Kitchen
Earning the title was easy, understanding how to lead took time and intention.

Doug Settle
For a long time, cooking wasn’t something to love. It was simply what was there.
There’s a version of this industry that rarely gets talked about, the one where you show up every day without passion, without clarity, just doing the work because it’s the only path in front of you. That was the reality for years. No childhood dream, no defining moment growing up, no romantic pull toward the kitchen. Just repetition, long hours, and learning how to keep going.
Everything shifted not because of a place, but because of a person. A chef who cared, not only about the food, but about the people behind it. That kind of environment felt different. It made the work feel different.
For the first time, cooking wasn’t just about getting through a shift, it became something that could actually matter. It sparked a realization that changed everything: there was something real here. Something that could be built on. The idea that this craft could support people, contribute to sustainable agriculture, and genuinely make someone happy through a meal gave the work a new kind of meaning. That moment didn’t just change direction, it defined it. Since then, the goal has been clear: Be that person for someone else.
The foundation, however, was built in much less romantic places. The first kitchens were fast food spots, where the food itself was simple, but the standards were not. Cleanliness and organization were taken to extremes—baseboards scrubbed with toothbrushes, dumpsters bleached weekly. At the time, it felt excessive, but those habits became permanent. No matter the kitchen, those standards stayed. Keeping a station cleaner, sharper, more intentional than expected became a quiet way to stand out. Not through words, but through consistency.
By the time culinary school entered the picture, there were already years of experience behind it. Speed, awareness, and the rhythm of service were already there, shaped by real-world pressure. That made the experience different. Instead of focusing on fundamentals, there was space to understand nuance, to pay attention to detail, to absorb more from the people teaching. That’s where the connection to food deepened: Not just in execution, but in understanding.
Like most paths in this industry, the challenges weren’t unique. They were shared realities. Moving from a small environment into a much larger one and realizing how much more there is to learn. The physical and mental strain. The unhealthy coping mechanisms that too often become normalized. The feeling of constantly trying to keep up. There’s something grounding in that, though. Knowing that these struggles are not isolated. That others have faced them and found a way through. Progress came from accepting that and continuing anyway.
One moment, though, forced a deeper shift. After finishing culinary school and stepping into a sous chef role, there was a desire to prove something: To show readiness, to lead. But leadership revealed itself in a different way.
Running the pass during a busy service felt controlled until it wasn’t. A returning mentor didn’t hold back in pointing out what was missing. The truth was clear: it wasn’t a failure of skill, it was a failure of leadership. That distinction changed everything. Cooking and leading are not the same. One is technical, the other requires intention, awareness, and responsibility. From that point on, leadership became something to study and refine, just like the craft itself.
What continues to drive the work forward is a constant search for something new. Not just new ingredients, but new ways of understanding them: How they’re grown, raised, sourced, and the impact behind them. New people, new mentors, new environments, new stories connected to food. There is always something to learn, something to improve, something to see differently. The answer to what is most exciting to cook has never really changed: something new.
At the center of it all is a simple idea: Fire. Not just as a cooking method, but as a way to understand the work. Fire is unpredictable, but it can be guided. It requires balance. If it burns too aggressively, it consumes everything too quickly. If it fades, everything stops. But when it’s steady—strong, controlled, consistent, it creates something people can feel. That same idea applies to leadership. The energy brought into a kitchen shapes everything around it. People notice it, respond to it, and carry it forward.
The disruption of COVID brought a different kind of challenge. Time away from the kitchen created distance not just from the work, but from identity. When so much of life is tied to being a chef, stepping away forces a confrontation with who you are without it. Returning to the kitchen, even briefly, brought clarity. It reinforced both sides of that reality: The need to be more than the job, and the understanding of how deeply the work still matters. What stood out most during that time wasn’t just the cooking, but the people. A team dynamic that felt closer to a sports team than a kitchen: Everyone pushing toward the same goal, without leaving anyone behind. That kind of camaraderie stays with you.
The biggest shift came in stepping away from traditional kitchens altogether. Moving into farm work, building something independently, and redefining what cooking could look like. Now, the work happens over fire, outside, traveling, sourcing ingredients with intention. It’s a different pace, a different environment, but rooted in the same values. No pretension, no excess, just honest food, meaningful experiences, and a direct connection to the source.
Sustainability, in that context, isn’t a trend or a concept. It’s a way of living. It’s choosing to support local producers, understanding where ingredients come from, and building relationships with the people behind them. It’s about reducing distance between land and plate, between producer and cook. Not because it’s fashionable, but because it makes sense.
For a long time, the industry was driven by the idea of importing the best from somewhere else. The rarest ingredients, the most prestigious sources. But that mindset is shifting. The question now feels more grounded, more honest: what makes a place unique? What grows there? What stories exist there?
Because in the end, that’s what lasts. Not who had access to the most exclusive products, but who understood their surroundings and chose to cook from them.
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
The most unique ingredient I’ve ever come across is fire. I know, I know, I’ve played up the fire thing enough. But I really think that if you learn to use and trust open flames enough, they can truly be the best ingredient in any dish. The right amount of smoke, more or less char, sometimes even a little burnt! It can take something incredibly simple and add so many layers of complexity.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
California burrito. Everytime. I don’t eat them as much as I did when I was a line cook, staying out until 2 am. But they’re nostalgic about cutting my teeth in the Gaslamp of San Diego years ago. You can’t find a burrito like this anywhere else in the world.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Chef’s Blend microgreens. If the ingredient doesn’t intentionally add something to the dish, get it out of there. Micros for the sake of something pretty on a dish, without a second thought, drive me nuts.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
It was New Year’s Eve in that same kitchen where my mentor chewed me out for not acting like a leader. It wasn’t too long after that, actually. We had way overbooked for whatever reason and were obviously running a special prefix menu, so everything was new to the line cooks. I was on expo and had never seen so many tickets in my life. The rail was full, the ticket chain was on the ground, and they just kept coming. The whole restaurant was backed up, the hosts were being yelled at, and apparently, it was up to me to dig us out. Crazy night.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
The team was one of the strongest I’ve ever worked with, so even though I wasn’t the best expo yet, that group of gnarly pirates dug deep, and we all pulled it out. We’ve all been there.
6. What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Exercise your body. You’ll find health through that journey. Not just physically being stronger, but you’ll start focusing on your diet, your joints, longevity, etc. I found that physical exercise also clears the clutter and stress from the mind. Exercise before your shifts, kids.
7. What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Cabbage is one of the most underrated ingredients to me. It’s really cheap and so versatile to cook with. Sear or roast wedges of it, slice and caramelize it, braise it. Cabbage can be very flavorful and surprisingly sweet when treated right!
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
Finding a must-have dish of ours because we rarely cook the same menu items. We recycle ingredients, sauces, and experiences, but it’s not often that an entire dish will be repeated. I’d say one that comes up pretty often is our grilled-and-chilled oyster table.
This is something we pull out for happy hour, passed/stationed apps. We basically have some chefs pulling oysters fresh off the grill with a pickled compound butter and garnishing the chilled ones with a seasonal mignonette right in front of guests. They land on a large table filled with foliage, herbs, leaves, flowers, etc from whatever venue we’re at, nestled between the foliage to hold them up. It creates a fun, very organic-looking way to serve the oysters.
About Your City!
San Diego, CA
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
San Diego definitely has a lot to experience, and it’s pretty spread out. I’m partial to North County these days, but I’ll try to get you across the whole city.
I’d start with a pour-over coffee at Steady State in Carlsbad, there’s a few places that serve their coffee, but you can’t beat getting it straight from the source. Their pour-overs are life-changing. For breakfast, walk 10 yards down the street and hit Wildland. They have some great bread baked in-house. It’s run by a multi-Michelin-starred group, but this concept is no fuss, casual all-day food.
Next, we’re going to head south to North Park for lunch. There’s nobody doing what the boss at Bica is doing. It’s an awesome little cafe where you can get that second coffee, but you’ll want to indulge in anything from the kitchen. They focus on tartines, fish plates, and sandwiches using sustainable catches such as sardines and anchovies. Really unbelievable.
Dinner is a hard choice. There are several awesome chefs doing incredible work around. You could head back up to Oceanside for Pizza at Allmine, or near Balboa and hit Hillcrest for Cellar Hand. Callie in the East Village is always a win! But if you had to choose one, I’d say you’d want to grab sushi in Oceanside from Wrench and Rodent. Davin has been a San Diego legend and a leader in sustainability for the better part of two decades, and it’d be a shame to miss his passion.
A Kitchen of Resistance
Humans Of The Kitchen
Grew up in a taquería in Tabasco, shaping a path to reclaim and elevate the south’s cuisine.

Lupita Vidal Aguilar
I didn’t become a cook because I planned to. But in many ways, I was always surrounded by it. I grew up with the sounds of kitchens, with wood stoves and pots always moving. My father is a cook. He had a taquería serving traditional stews from Tabasco, so even if I didn’t realize it at the time, I was never really separated from that world.
My interest in cooking came later, in my twenties. Before that, I thought I would dedicate myself to film. I even studied communications for a year. But life has a way of redirecting you, and little by little, I found myself coming back to what had always been there.
When I finally stepped into a professional kitchen, I immediately thought this was where I belonged. Not because it was easy, but because it felt like a challenge. And I needed that. I wanted to prove to myself that I could earn my place.
I did study gastronomy, but to be honest, in many parts of Mexico, especially in the south, true professional culinary education is still developing. There are gaps, and that creates challenges for the craft. For me, the real learning didn’t come from school. It came from necessity.
I was young, I didn’t have connections or financial resources, and being a woman from the south comes with its own set of barriers. So my husband and I started something of our own because we had to. There was no other path. And in the end, that small kitchen we built and my state’s culinary identity became my real teachers.
There have been moments in my life that were difficult in ways I didn’t expect. Not just professionally, but personally. I remember living away from Tabasco and feeling a deep loneliness. No one really guides you in those moments. It’s just you, your vocation, and whatever strength you can find inside yourself.
When I returned home, everything changed. I met my husband, Jesús, and we started walking this path together. He left his career as a photographer to build this with me. It hasn’t been easy. At some point, you stop being the one learning and become the one responsible for guiding others. That carries a different kind of weight.
But today, after more than a decade, we’ve become something I wish I had when I was starting: a place for people who cannot leave, who cannot travel, who still deserve to learn and grow.
What keeps me going is identity. I believe deeply in the cuisine of the south, in the cuisine of the tropics. For a long time, we were taught not to feel proud of it. And that’s exactly why I do. Because I see what it really is with all its richness, its depth, its history.
Cooking is not just cooking; it’s social, it’s agriculture, and it’s health. It’s part of how a society develops. And there is still so much that needs to be dignified, not only in kitchens but across the entire system surrounding them.
The kitchens of my land have marked me forever. The women who cook every day without recognition, yet carry the identity of an entire people. My father, who understands what it truly means to serve. The culture of water and smoke. The resilience that exists in the south.
That is what inspires me. My philosophy is rooted in dignity. In understanding that nothing we do is individual. We are part of something much bigger: our communities, our territories, our people.
Cooking is demanding. It can exhaust you, it can hurt you, it can challenge everything you are. But it should not destroy you. It should build something.
There are always moments of camaraderie that remind you of that. I remember being in Cancún, far from home, not even knowing how to move around the city. A fellow cook from Tabasco helped me, both inside and outside the kitchen. Those gestures stay with you. They remind you that even in a difficult industry, there are always people willing to guide you.
Of course, there are also people who try to close doors. But you keep moving forward for what you believe in.
What I feel most proud of is not just what I’ve done, but what it has meant for others. Helping position Tabasco’s cuisine internationally is important, yes, but even more important is seeing people from my own land feel proud of who they are. Seeing producers, fishermen, and oyster harvesters feel that their work matters. That it is valued, that it is respected.
That is everything. Because cooking does not begin in the kitchen. It begins in the land, in the water, in the hands of the people who make it possible. And for a long time, many of those places, like the south of Mexico, have not been seen the way they deserve.
I hope that changes and that we move toward a more conscious, more just way of cooking. One that respects people, respects territories, and understands that food is not just something we serve, it’s something we carry.
And for me, that’s what this has always been about. Not just cooking. But creating space for a culture, for a community, for a story that deserves to be told.
Photo credits to @elfoodografomx
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
The freshwater ingredients of Tabasco. I grew up seeing many of them, but when I began cooking them professionally, I realized how complex they are. Ingredients like pejelagarto or popal shrimp taught me that freshwater cuisine has its own techniques, timing, and flavors. They made me understand that territory defines cuisine.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
A good street taco. I grew up in my father’s taquería, so tacos will always be a place of memory and happiness for me.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
When cooking becomes a spectacle and forgets the territory and the people who produce the ingredients. Gastronomy should speak more about identity and less about trends.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
The first years of my restaurant. There were very few people doing everything and working endless shifts, trying to keep the project alive. It was chaotic, but it was also where I truly learned what it means to sustain a kitchen.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
I realized that in the kitchen, no one can do it alone. I learned to trust the team, listen, and build community in the kitchen. That is the only way to survive the hardest days.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Remember why you started. The kitchen is demanding and often chaotic, but when there is a vocation, it becomes a path of constant learning. My advice is to seek kitchens where you can truly learn, to respect the craft, and to understand that no one grows alone. Community and teamwork are what sustain a kitchen on the hardest days.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Freshwater ingredients from the tropics, especially pejelagarto. For a long time, it was seen as a humble ingredient, but it holds a deep history in the cuisine of southeastern Mexico. When you understand its territory, its techniques, and its culture, you discover an extraordinary ingredient.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
A dish with pejelagarto, one of the most representative ingredients of Tabasco. For me, it captures the cuisine of water, smoke, and the tropics. It’s a dish that speaks about territory, tradition, and the culinary identity of my state.
About Your City!
Tabasco, Mexico
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
If a chef like Anthony Bourdain came to Tabasco, I would first take him to La Güera for her thick, handmade tortillas. Then we would have a meal with Doña Francis to experience traditional cooking at its deepest level.
We would go to Sánchez Magallanes with Braulio to eat freshly opened oysters by the sea. Then we would try the piguas from Los Selvan and the butifarras from La Morena Jalpaneca.
We would also visit the flooded maize fields with Joanna and El Negro Chon to understand where our cuisine is truly born. We would eat grilled pejelagarto at La Cevichería Tabasco and finish with my father’s traditional stewed tacos.
More than restaurants, I would show him the people and the territory.
Carrying Home Across Borders
Humans Of The Kitchen
Cooking abroad while staying deeply connected to the flavors and spirit of origin.

Sebastian Lepinoy
I still remember exactly when my interest in cooking began. My two older brothers were studying at a culinary boarding school, and when they returned, they always cooked for the family. I was very young then, but those moments stayed with me. I would watch them in the kitchen, fascinated. What caught my attention most were the sweets, soufflés, cakes, and desserts. At that age, loving food is really where it all begins, and what I loved most were those sweet creations.
Cooking became my path very early. I started working in kitchens at the age of fifteen. The only time I stepped away from the kitchen was when I was twenty and completed my National Service in France. At that time, it was compulsory for young men to serve. It was the only professional experience I had outside of cooking. When I returned to the kitchen afterward, it made something very clear to me. This was exactly where I belonged.
I went through the traditional French culinary education system, which was very structured. I spent two weeks working in a restaurant kitchen and one week in school. It was a very good balance because you were not protected from the realities of the job. From the very beginning, you learn the fundamentals like peeling vegetables, washing potatoes, washing plates, understanding discipline, and the spirit of the kitchen. At the same time, the school provided a sense of stability and structure for someone so young. It kept you grounded while you learned the profession.
I remember my first experiences in the kitchen as exciting and fun. There were always other apprentices starting at the same time, so we quickly became friends. It felt very different from school. Suddenly, you were learning something practical, something real, and you were even earning money. What you quickly understand is that a restaurant kitchen runs entirely on teamwork. Starting so young teaches you responsibility very early, and you mature fast in that environment.
In the beginning, the challenges were not immediate. In kitchens, you progress step by step according to your level. Some people learn quickly, others take more time, but everyone is constantly improving. If something is difficult, you try once, twice, and eventually you understand. Then you move on to the next task. That is the rhythm of the kitchen.
The bigger challenges came later, when I began working overseas. Language was the main difficulty. French is my native language, and my English was very basic. In the kitchen, communication is actually quite natural because so much of it is visual. But as a chef, your job extends far beyond the kitchen. Speaking with guests was manageable because people understood that French was my first language. The real challenge was communicating with departments like marketing or finance, where you must express complex ideas clearly. Over time, with experience and practice, that became easier.
My inspiration has always been constant. It does not come only from the kitchen itself, but from the entire restaurant experience. I often find inspiration when I travel, especially when I return to France. I visit restaurants, observe how they approach their craft, and see what they might be doing differently or better. Those moments always bring new ideas.
For me, going back to your roots is essential. As a French chef working overseas, it is important that I remain connected to where I come from. My identity must be clear. Only then can I offer guests an experience that is truly authentic and representative of French gastronomy.
There have been several moments in my career that have left a strong impression on me. One was when I had the opportunity to cook for President Barack Obama during a charity event in Singapore. I was asked to prepare one of my signature dishes, Challans duck. The challenge was that the dinner did not take place in my own restaurant. Cooking in an unfamiliar hotel kitchen always adds complexity. You must adapt quickly to new equipment, a new team, and a different environment. When you are cooking for someone of that stature, every detail matters.
Another moment happened earlier in Hong Kong, when I accepted the challenge of cooking for 600 guests with only two of my assistants. It was quite audacious to attempt something like that with such a small team. We were working in an unfamiliar kitchen alongside staff we had never met before. The pressure was intense, but the service was successful. Experiences like that test your discipline, preparation, and trust in your team.
My philosophy is very clear. I want to deliver a truly French restaurant experience. It is not only about the food but also about the overall atmosphere and how we welcome our guests. Around ninety percent of the ingredients we use come directly from France. This allows us to remain faithful to the flavors and traditions of French gastronomy.
This philosophy is also guided by what we call l’Art de la Table à la Française, the French tradition of hospitality and dining. It is about elegance, precision, and creating a complete experience around the table. When guests dine with us, I want them to feel as though they have spent an evening in France.
During the COVID period, the restaurant was closed for normal dining service, and we shifted entirely to takeaway. At the time, it was uncertain and very different from the life we were used to. But looking back, it became one of the most joyful periods in the kitchen. The team was small, and the atmosphere was relaxed in a different way. We would play music while we worked, and the pace was very different from that of our usual fine-dining service.
That time created a strong sense of camaraderie within the team. We learned a lot about resilience and how to endure difficult moments together.
One of the proudest milestones in my career came in 2019, when Les Amis was awarded three Michelin stars for my cuisine. It was a transformative moment for the restaurant. Les Amis was already well known in the region, but this recognition placed us firmly on the global fine dining stage. In the same year, we also received the Forbes Five-Star rating, which affirmed the level of hospitality we aim to deliver.
Personally, achieving three Michelin stars is something every chef hopes to experience at least once. It represents years of dedication, discipline, and teamwork from the entire restaurant.
One of the things I love most about this profession is the human connection. Through cooking, you meet many interesting people and have the opportunity to bring joy to your guests. Creating those moments of happiness through food is something truly unique.
At the same time, restaurants are built around people, and that can also be the emotional side of the job. In a place like Les Amis, we attract very talented individuals. It is rewarding to watch them grow and develop their confidence. But as their careers progress, many move on to new opportunities. While we are happy for their success, it is always difficult to say goodbye to colleagues with whom you have shared so many intense moments in the kitchen.
Looking toward the future, I believe one of the most important contributions I can make is mentorship. When I was a young chef, I had the opportunity to learn under incredible mentors in several three-Michelin-starred restaurants. Those experiences shaped my discipline, my mindset, and my understanding of the profession.
Because of that, I believe it is essential to pass that knowledge forward. In the kitchen, we have a responsibility to guide the next generation, teach them the fundamentals, and help them grow not only as chefs, but as people. The future of gastronomy depends on mentorship and the willingness to share what we have learned.
Photos 6, 8, & 12 credits to @alineacollective
Photos 2 & 4 credits to @nievephotos
The rest of the photos were taken in house or from chef’s personal collection.
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
Mango. This was not something I had much exposure to while in France. After moving to Asia, it was a completely new flavour that opened up a different perspective for me.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
A Nutella crepe with my daughter.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Dubai chocolate, it’s just not good.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
One of the craziest shifts I experienced was while working as a guest chef in a Riyadh kitchen. We were preparing for a large banquet service with an unfamiliar team when the ice cream machine stopped working.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
We tried again and again to get the ice cream right, but nothing was successful. With service approaching quickly, we had to think of another solution. In the end, we arranged for the ice cream to be made elsewhere in the hotel and brought it over in time for the banquet. It was stressful, but situations like this remind you that in the kitchen, you must stay calm and find solutions quickly.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Stay focused and confident.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Salmon is such a simple fish, found everywhere in the world. Yet with the right ingredients and the highest-quality salmon, perfectly cooked, Les Amis can elevate it into a well-rounded dish that even those who usually dislike salmon can enjoy.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
Les Amis’ potato salad. In its current form, it is the result of more than a decade of refinement, shaped through countless small edits to bring it to its most elevated expression. A perfect balance of potato and caviar, measured to the exact gram each time.
About Your City!
Angers, France
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
I am from the Loire Valley region, so the day would begin with breakfast in the vineyards. We would start with rillons, a Loire Valley specialty of slow-cooked pork belly, rich and deeply flavorful.
For lunch, we would enjoy rognons de veau à la Bauge, a rich, savoury dish that is truly a highlight of French cuisine.
In the afternoon, as the French do, we would pause for a sweet break with a pâté aux prunes. And of course, lots of Cointreau.
Intensity Without Ego
Humans Of The Kitchen
High standards don’t have to come at the cost of respect and humanity.

Dan Kennedy
I didn’t grow up dreaming about cooking. In fact, I hated it as a kid. Cooking felt like a chore, especially knowing the dishes were waiting for you afterward. There wasn’t some childhood moment where everything suddenly clicked. That came much later. I dropped out of college and needed to figure out what I was going to do with my life. Cooking ended up being the path that found me.
Before that, I spent a short time working construction in Philadelphia and almost joined a union. That experience didn’t make me want to cook specifically, but it did show me something about myself. I realized I preferred working with my hands. I liked trade work, being physical, building something real with your effort. The idea of sitting behind a desk in a nine-to-five job never felt right to me.
I almost went to culinary school, but I didn’t want to take on debt for something I believed I could learn on the job. So early in my career, I sent my resume to every good restaurant I could find and hoped someone would give me a chance. I was lucky enough to work with chefs who were willing to teach me from the ground up. Learning outside of school shaped the way I think about food. Instead of memorizing classic combinations from a book, I developed a mindset of experimentation and curiosity.
My first kitchen job was overwhelming. It wasn’t even a place doing anything particularly groundbreaking. But I remember one moment very clearly. We had to go next door to borrow cheese from another restaurant we shared an alley with. That restaurant was Le Bec Fin in Philadelphia. When I stepped inside that kitchen, everything changed. I saw cooks sweating on the line, moving with intensity, pushing themselves in a way I had never seen before. Watching that energy, I remember thinking I wanted to cook in restaurants like that. I wanted to be one of those badass line cooks.
The beginning was brutal. I knew absolutely nothing, and everyone around me knew it too. Chefs and cooks looked at me like I was a burden, which I honestly was. I would go home every day, tearing myself apart, convinced I wasn’t good enough and thinking about quitting. But I’m stubborn. Maybe even a little bone-headed. I wanted to prove to everyone, including myself, that I could do it. So I just kept showing up, taking it day by day, learning from every mistake.
What keeps me inspired is the craft itself. There is always something to learn, something to refine. But there is also something deeply satisfying about locking in and executing at a high level every single day. When burnout creeps in, I don’t step away from the kitchen. I go deeper into it. I prep with the team, focus on the food, and try to learn something new.
One moment that stayed with me happened when I was working at my uncle’s barbecue restaurant. It was a busy dinner service, and the kitchen was open, so guests could watch everything happening. I noticed a guy standing there staring at me while I worked through the rush. I kept my head down and pushed through service. When his order finally came up, he stopped before leaving and asked how long I had been cooking. At that point, it had only been about two years. He told me he was a chef and that the way I moved in the kitchen felt natural, that I should keep going. I never got his name, but that moment stuck with me. It gave me a level of confidence I didn’t have yet.
My philosophy in the kitchen today is built around respect and intention. Respect starts at the door. It shows in how we treat each other, how we handle ingredients, how we take care of our equipment, and how we serve our guests. I run an intense kitchen because I believe in focus and discipline. But I’ve also learned some hard lessons along the way.
There was a time when I was not a good leader. I ran kitchens that were toxic, full of yelling and frustration. Over time, I realized that intensity and respect can exist together. You can hold high standards without treating people as disposable. Now I try to lead with that balance in mind. There are still moments when I get frustrated or have to correct someone, but how you handle those moments matters.
One of the best parts of this industry is the people. Kitchens have always been a place for those who don’t quite fit anywhere else. I like to call it the island of misfit toys. I’ve worked with people from every background imaginable, from all over the world. That diversity and shared struggle create strong bonds. Some of the best friendships in my life were built during long services and late nights after work.
What still frustrates me is that toxic kitchens persist. I understand the pressure that comes with chasing excellence, especially in high-level restaurants. But that pressure doesn’t justify treating people as less than human. The industry has to evolve past that.
The biggest achievement in my career isn’t a title or an award. It’s when someone I’ve worked with reaches out and tells me they learned something from me, or that they would go into battle with me again in the kitchen. Legacy in this profession isn’t just about the food you cook. It’s about the people you influence along the way.
Looking forward, I hope the industry becomes more authentic. Right now, there’s a lot of chasing trends and social media moments. Restaurants are trying to create something flashy instead of something real. I want to see more chefs cooking the food they actually care about. Playing the music they like. Building spaces they would want to spend time in. We need more identity in this industry. Less imitation. More people simply being themselves.
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
I wouldn’t say any specific ingredient, but rather the flavor of bitterness. I think people are scared of making a component bitter and always think it’s unpalatable. It is a great flavor builder as long as you balance it properly.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Andy’s Frozen Custard.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Caviar and truffles on everything just because. I find truffles overrated, but I really do love caviar. The issue is when people use it just because it’s trendy or for things like caviar bumps. Don’t put it on a dish just because it’s trendy, only use it if it actually improves the dish and makes sense.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
So many. I once went into work at 6 AM to prep a completely vegan tasting menu for VIP guests and worked until midnight. I’ve also had to do the 8 AM brunch into dinner service and work until midnight on Saturday and Sunday.
The worst was by far a Mother’s Day brunch at a restaurant where the chef wanted to do a tasting menu. He unfortunately had a heart attack a week before and was in the hospital, and his sous chef was in way over his head, and we were a bunch of unguided cooks. It was a disaster, and we had to turn away almost every guest who had a reservation that day.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
We didn’t get through. We all hung our heads in shame for screwing it up so badly. It was just too many plates going out to too many covers with no plan in place.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
You’d better love this career and realize it doesn’t love you back. I have seen great cooks chewed up and spit out by it. Always remember why you started doing it, and never forget to fall in love with the craft, not the awards, accolades, or fame you can achieve.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Fermented chilies. They are the best, and I use them all the time. Depending on the chili, you can adjust the heat in what you are making, but the addition of salinity and that funky/sour flavor it brings just always makes me happy.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
The proudest thing on my menu is the taco canapés that I make. The shell is a tuille made from cilantro and dry chili, filled with grilled pork tossed in salsa verde and grilled pineapple aioli, and topped with brown butter-fried shallot. It encapsulates my cooking perfectly. It’s aesthetically beautiful and packs massive flavor by combining techniques and flavors from different cultures.
About Your City!
Austin, TX
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
I would start with breakfast at Epicerie for a coffee and a few breakfast pastries. I would do a small breakfast because I gotta do BBQ in Austin. So many to choose from, but I am a big fan of La Barbecue.
If you want to be an absolute glutton, grab some tacos from Cuantos. Before dinner, head over to a bar called Paper Cut. I don’t drink, but they make fantastic mocktails.
Dinner for me has to be at Canje, my absolute favorite restaurant in the city. The flavors, spices, and heat level they cook with are right up my alley.
Craft Over Hype
Humans Of The Kitchen
A belief that food should be built on intention, technique, and respect instead of virality.

Jasmine Teo Ying Ying
Food became my language before I even realized it. Somewhere along the way, I understood that what I truly loved wasn’t just cooking, but creating something sincere and honest. Something made with intention, not just to sell or impress, but to make people feel good.
I didn’t have a long corporate career before stepping into this path. During university, I interned in an HR department at a multinational company, which was my only experience in a traditional office setting. It didn’t take long for me to realize that kind of life wasn’t for me. Sitting behind a desk, following routines, felt limiting. I’ve always been someone who wants to build, to create, to see something grow from nothing.
At 22, right after graduating, I took a leap instead of applying for corporate jobs. I started my first F&B venture, @poketwins.my. It came from a very honest place. I cared about what I was eating, I was deeply into healthy food, and I wanted to create something that made people feel good, too. That was the beginning. I’m still running it today, alongside my second brand, @donabakehouse.
I’m entirely self-taught. That path came with challenges, but it shaped me in ways I wouldn’t trade. There was no structure, no one correcting me in real time. Every mistake became my teacher, and every failed batch became part of the process. I had to learn through observation, repetition, and failure. It forced me to slow down and really understand what I was doing, instead of just following instructions. That kind of learning builds something deeper. It teaches you discipline, resilience, and respect for the craft.
My first real kitchen wasn’t a traditional one. It was my own—a small, unorganized space with limited equipment, no systems, and a lot of uncertainty. Everything felt chaotic in the beginning. I was figuring out production, storage, costing, and consistency simultaneously. But building it from scratch taught me everything. I saw how disorder affects quality, and how structure changes everything. Over time, I turned that chaos into a system. Clear workflows, SOPs, and discipline. That transition shaped me. It taught me that growth isn’t given, it’s built.
One of my biggest challenges early on was being self-taught. I was slower, and I lost opportunities because I wasn’t “ready” yet. There were moments when I felt behind others with formal training. But over time, I realized going slow was actually what built my foundation stronger. When you’ve failed enough times, wasted ingredients, miscalculated production, and had to absorb the cost yourself, the lessons stay with you. You don’t forget them. Instead of rushing, I chose to understand deeply. That changed everything.
What keeps me going is the constant desire to be better than I was yesterday. I’ve never felt comfortable staying at one level. There’s always something to refine, whether it’s technique, leadership, or how I show up. At the same time, knowing that I can inspire someone else also drives me. When someone tells me they started baking because of something I shared, or when my team feels motivated by the way I work, it reminds me that leadership carries responsibility. That keeps me grounded and moving forward.
Some of the most defining moments in my journey weren’t successes, but failures. I remember days when the electricity would trip mid-bake, and everything had to start over. Standing there, exhausted, flour everywhere, no one to guide me, just deciding whether to try again the next day. Those moments stayed with me. They taught me resilience and respect for the craft in a way nothing else could. Growth often comes from the batches no one ever sees.
My philosophy in the kitchen is rooted in sincerity, discipline, and respect. Good food starts with intention. Not trends, not shortcuts. Details matter. Fermentation time matters. Training matters. If the foundation is strong, creativity will follow naturally. As a leader, I don’t believe in ego. I believe in responsibility. If I expect consistency, I have to model it. If I want my team to care, I have to show them why it matters. You build culture through your actions.
There were times when I felt deeply burned out, carrying the weight of running a business, managing people, and making decisions constantly. In those moments, I would return to the kitchen, not as a boss, but as a baker. Working with my hands, shaping dough, laminating, focusing on the process. It grounded me. The kitchen has a rhythm you can’t rush. That rhythm brought me back to myself. And being around the team, sharing small moments during prep, laughing, tasting things together, reminded me why I started.
One of the milestones I’m most proud of is when my work began to be recognized beyond my immediate space. Collaborating with global brands like Lacoste, Sulwhasoo, and Braun Buffel felt surreal. Not just because of the opportunity, but because it validated that my voice, my style, and my way of telling stories through food could stand on an international level. Coming from a small kitchen and building everything from scratch meant a lot.
What I love most about this industry is when there is real respect across every role. When everyone understands that each part matters, that’s when a space truly works. What frustrates me is how easy it has become to enter the industry without understanding the craft. Sometimes it becomes more about aesthetics and virality than quality and substance. That creates a culture driven by hype instead of intention.
In my own work, I focus on building structure, maintaining standards, and protecting the integrity of what we create. Proper technique, training, and systems matter. Not just how things look, but how they are made.
Looking ahead, I hope the industry returns to sincerity. I want to move back toward craft, consistency, and long-term trust instead of short-term attention. Food should feel good, not just look good. As for me, I contribute by building something honest. Sharing the process, the struggles, and the reality behind the scenes. Because when people understand the work behind the plate, they value it differently.
For me, it has always been the same. Create with intention, build with honesty, and never lose sight of why you started.
Secret Sauce
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Instant noodles with sunny side up.
2. A food trend that you hate and why?
I’m honestly not a fan of bubble tea. I rarely drink it; it’s often too sweet and doesn’t align with how I approach food and beverages. What bothers me more is how many brands entered the market purely because it was trending. When something is built on hype, quality can easily be compromised. That said, there are still a few sincere brands that truly focus on tea quality and balance, and those deserve respect.
3. What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen? What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
The craziest shift I’ve ever worked was during the early days of the business, from 6 am until 12 am. About 18 hours straight.
4. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
At that time, I didn’t really have a full team yet. If someone didn’t show up or if production fell short, I had to cover everything myself, baking, prepping, packing, handling customers, and even cleaning up at the end of the night.
Eventually, I’ve built a team of over 20 bakers and front-of-house staff, a full ecosystem to run the business.
5. What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
The most important thing in this industry is passion, not titles, not certificates, not theory alone. You can learn all the techniques in school, but if you don’t genuinely love the work, it won’t sustain you through the hard days.
You have to respect the food and the ingredients. Understand that flour, butter, vegetables, and meat are not just products; they’re effort, cost, and life. When you respect ingredients, your cooking naturally improves.
Be willing to learn constantly. The kitchen humbles everyone. Trends change, techniques evolve, and there is always someone better at something than you. Stay curious and, most importantly, no ego. Respect your team. A kitchen only functions when everyone supports one another. Talent without humility creates tension. Passion with discipline and respect builds longevity.
6. What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
I think salt is an underrated ingredient for me. It sounds simple, but salt is one of the most powerful tools in the kitchen. It doesn’t just make food salty, it enhances flavour, balances sweetness, sharpens acidity, and deepens overall taste. Used correctly, it elevates every ingredient without being noticed. Used poorly, it can ruin a dish. Beyond flavour, salt plays a technical role in baking. In bread and pastry, salt strengthens the gluten structure. It tightens and stabilises the dough, giving it greater elasticity and helping it retain its shape during fermentation and baking. Without salt, dough can feel slack, overly sticky, and weak.
Salt also regulates yeast activity. It slows fermentation slightly, allowing better flavour development and preventing over-proofing. So it’s not just about taste, it’s about control, structure, and balance. That’s why I respect salt so much.
7. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
A classic croissant.
About Your City!
Malaysia
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
I would start the day very locally, no fancy places, just real streets.
Malaysia is made up of three main ethnic groups- Malays, Chinese, and Indians. Breakfast would be at a traditional kopitiam. Hainanese toast with cold butter and kaya, paired with soft-boiled eggs and strong kopi (Chinese style). Or nasi lemak wrapped in a banana leaf, sambal, fried anchovies, peanuts, egg (Malay style). Simple, honest, and full of flavour. Or roti prata (Indian style).
For lunch, maybe banana leaf rice eaten with our hands, or char kuey teow cooked over high heat. Something smoky, imperfect, full of wok hei.
Afternoon would be café hopping, maybe at my bakery cafe.
For dinner, I’d go for seafood, chilli crab, sambal stingray, and grilled prawns by the seaside. Loud, communal, slightly chaotic. That’s Malaysia.
Beyond the Illusion of the Chef
Humans Of The Kitchen
Looking past the glamour to the demanding reality of professional kitchens.

Nicola Zamperetti
Looking back at my childhood, I don’t remember the exact moment when everything suddenly clicked, and I decided I wanted to cook. For me, it was quieter than that. A constant curiosity that followed me as I grew up. I watched food closely. I paid attention to the effort behind it, to the care it required, to the way dedication always showed in the final result. Cooking felt concrete. You put in the work, and something real came out of it. Something you could touch, taste, and share. That idea stayed with me long before I understood it as a passion.
I was born in Vicenza and grew up in a family rooted in construction. Before the kitchen, I studied to become a surveyor, following a path that made sense on paper and felt familiar at home. That education gave me structure and discipline, and I don’t regret it. But when I finished school at eighteen, it was clear that this wasn’t my future. Cooking had always been there in the background, quietly insisting. Choosing the kitchen meant stepping away from expectations and committing to something that felt honest. It was the first time I really trusted my instincts.
I didn’t go to culinary school. I learned by working. Day after day, inside professional kitchens. My education came from repetition, observation, mistakes, and responsibility. I learned because people were waiting to eat. Because service doesn’t pause for theory. That way of learning shaped me. It taught me respect for time, ingredients, hierarchy, and consistency. It made me pragmatic. Focused. Aware that growth comes from showing up every day and doing the work properly, even when no one is watching.
My first kitchen wasn’t inspiring or romantic. For six months straight, from morning to night, I peeled potatoes in a small restaurant near my home. That was my job. No creativity or recognition. Just repetition and long hours. It was exhausting, sometimes frustrating, but it was honest. That experience taught me early that cooking has nothing to do with ego. It’s about endurance, discipline, and respect for the craft. That beginning shaped how seriously I approach the kitchen to this day.
The hardest part at the start wasn’t just the work. It was the sacrifice. Working fifteen hours a day and still struggling financially was difficult to accept. The effort often felt disproportionate to the reward. On top of that, I had to give up another passion of mine — sport — simply because there was no time left. Learning to accept sacrifice, at least for a period of my life, was part of the price I paid to keep moving forward.
What kept me going was a simple belief: effort always leaves a mark. I believe deeply in work done properly, consistently, and with respect. During the toughest moments, when motivation was low and fatigue was high, I focused on progress instead of comfort. Discipline eventually turns into growth. That mindset has carried me through doubt, frustration, and exhaustion, and it still drives me today.
There wasn’t one defining moment that changed everything, but there was a realization that grew over time. When people around me started noticing that I could do something special, something that stood out, I began to see myself differently. I’m not particularly romantic, and I don’t easily express emotions, but cooking became my language. Through food, I could communicate care, attention, and identity without saying a word. That’s when I understood this wasn’t just a job. It was how I connect.
I’ve had the opportunity to work in kitchens that represent excellence in Italian dining, both nationally and internationally, including two- and three-Michelin-star restaurants. Fine dining taught me rigor, technique, and extreme attention to detail. Over time, though, I realized that my personal idea of cooking is deeply honest. It’s built around high-quality ingredients, respect for tradition, and techniques learned by working alongside great professionals, without excess. That philosophy guides both my cooking and my leadership.
One of the most formative periods of my life was the four years I spent in Sicily, working in a two-Michelin-star restaurant that was fully booked every day. Being far from my family and my sense of security forced me to grow up fast. The intensity of that kitchen became a school, professionally and personally. It taught me independence, resilience, and how to handle pressure.
At twenty-seven, becoming the executive chef of my first hotel was a major milestone. Today, at thirty-two, I’m leading my third hotel project and managing a team of more than forty people. What I’m proud of isn’t the title, but the trust behind it. Responsibility earned over time. Growth built on discipline. The ability to guide others using the same values that shaped me.
What I love about restaurant culture is its structure, discipline, and hierarchy. When done well, they create clarity, and clarity allows people to grow. What frustrates me is the illusion surrounding this profession. The media has turned chefs into celebrities and kitchens into something glamorous and effortless. The reality is demanding and repetitive, and it requires real sacrifice. I believe we need more honesty and less illusion, so people enter this profession consciously, understanding what it truly asks of them.
I like the direction high-level dining is taking today. Simpler and more authentic. Focused on substance instead of excess. That shift feels necessary. What I hope for in the future is better support from public authorities, especially in taxation and sustainability. A system that allows restaurants to invest more in people, quality, and long-term growth would strengthen the entire industry.
I describe myself simply: a cook by passion, a chef by profession, and a pessimist in life. A cook because, deep down, I’m still the kid who fell in love with the kitchen. A chef, because this work has shaped who I am. And a pessimist because being prepared for the worst pushes me to do better every day. When things go well, the satisfaction feels earned, and that makes it even better.
Photo credits to @andrea_dilorenzo
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
One of the most unexpected ingredients I’ve worked with is tuna bottarga, made from Mediterranean bluefin tuna roe. Seeing the process, first in brine, then under salt, and finally left to dry until it becomes a true concentrate of the sea, completely changed the way I think about flavor. It taught me how time and restraint can transform something raw into something incredibly complex. I prefer to use it in its purest form, because covering it would mean losing the depth and intensity that come from such a careful and patient process.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Chocolate ice cream.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Matcha.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
It wasn’t a traditional kitchen shift, but it’s probably the craziest stretch I’ve ever worked. I drove from Sicily to Friuli for nineteen hours straight, then worked two back-to-back events. Right after that, I left again early in the morning and arrived back in Sicily at five a.m. Two hours later, at seven, I was back in the kitchen, fully operational, with the restaurant completely booked. Exhausting, irrational, and somehow memorable. I wouldn’t call it healthy, but it was definitely interesting.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
Honestly, a lot of coffee.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Do it with passion, and surround yourself with people who share that same drive. Wake up every morning with the desire to make a difference, even in small things. Stay focused on your own path and don’t waste energy looking at what others are doing, especially those who judge you without really knowing you. The kitchen is already demanding enough; clarity, determination, and staying true to yourself are what will carry you through the chaos.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Onion, in my opinion, is one of the most underrated ingredients. It can be as strong as a punch, yet as gentle as a kiss on the cheek. It’s a solid foundation for almost any sauce, but it can also stand alone as the perfect side dish. Often not the protagonist, it’s the ingredient that gives meaning and balance to everything else. That versatility is what makes it essential in honest cooking.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
One of the dishes I’m proudest of is Rombo alla Mugnaia, which brings together experiences, ingredients, and collaborations from different moments of my career. The turbot is cooked over charcoal, giving it depth and structure, and paired with lemon-infused whipped potatoes. A butter-and-caper sauce adds richness, finished with chives and caper leaves. It’s a dish rooted in tradition, but shaped by technique and restraint, simple on the surface, but built on years of work and influence.
About Your City!
Rome, Italy
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
For many reasons, I feel deeply connected to Rome, and my perfect day there would be simple and honest. I’d start with breakfast at Faro, for one of the best coffees in the city, precise, serious, no compromises.
Lunch would be at Osteria La Quercia, sitting down for their amatriciana and a good glass of red wine, the kind of place where tradition speaks for itself. In the afternoon, I’d stop for a gelato at Come il Latte, just to slow things down. Aperitivo at Freni e Frizioni feels right for the energy and the crowd.
Dinner would be at Trattoria da Tullio, classic and reassuring. And if the night still has something to give, I’d end with a cocktail at Drink Kong, modern, sharp, and perfectly out of place in the best way.
Elizabeth Norris
Humans Of The Kitchen

THE BEGINNINGS
I was born and raised in London to a Sri Lankan mother and English father. And I immigrated to Sri Lanka about six years ago, where I am the current chef and owner at Club Ceylon in Negumbo.
There have been quite a few food memories that stand out from my childhood that have inspired my passion for food. A lot of my Sri Lankan family moved to England during the difficult times back home, and when I’d visit my mum’s side of the family on weekends in London, there would always be a feast — nine curries, all the aunties, all the families together. Just endless food, so many people, and you didn’t always know what you were eating, but it was delicious.
When I was about sixteen, we were in Spain, and I had this Galician-style octopus — thinly sliced over a bed of potatoes, drizzled with olive oil, sprinkled with paprika and salt. That dish never left me. I remember thinking, I have to have this again — I can’t go on without it.
About a year later, I went to the supermarket, bought an octopus, and tried to recreate it. I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. The whole house stank, it took hours, and it definitely didn’t taste like the one I’d had in Spain. But that was really the start of it — my fascination with food, with flavor, and with trying to recreate something that moved me.
Tasting that fresh seafood in Spain was such a contrast to what I was eating in London at the time. It opened up a whole new world for me.
When we visited our grandparents on weekends, the food was always mind-blowing. But as we got into our mid-twenties, the same people who had filled those tables when we were younger weren’t around anymore — and I noticed flavours starting to disappear from the table.
People would say, “That’s what great-grandma used to make — we’re not sure how she did it.”
So many of our family recipes were based on instinct — throwing in ingredients, tasting, adjusting. When one of my sisters was getting married, my grandparents came over from Sri Lanka. They hadn’t been in England for a while, and all these incredible curries had started to vanish. I thought, If I don’t learn this now, I’ll lose it forever.
So when they arrived, I told my grandma, “I’m going part-time at work so you can teach me.” I already wanted to become a chef, but it felt too late — most people start at nineteen, and I was in my mid-twenties.
I stayed with my grandma, who constantly called me a messy chef and said I didn’t know kitchen etiquette. Funny enough, I later realized she was running a professional kitchen in her own way — disciplined, efficient, everything ready at the right time and in the right order.
Some days we didn’t cook because she was tired. I stayed with her through it all — sleeping on the sofa, cooking as much as I could, learning everything possible. But what I made never tasted quite like hers. Even after she taught me, it still wasn’t the same. It’s practice — tasting, making mistakes, starting again. Eventually, you get there. I’m still getting there.
I’ve been chasing her flavor — that distinct family taste. I remember running around with measuring cups and she’d say, “What is all this nonsense?” She’d just throw curry powders in instinctively while I shouted, “Wait, we have to measure this!” And she’d laugh and say, “Cooking doesn’t work like that, darling. It’s about taste — it’s about feeling.”
That’s when I truly learned how much of cooking is about intuition and understanding your ingredients. After five months of learning with her, I realized I’d missed so much work already that I might as well dive in completely and see where it took me.
And that’s exactly what I did.
I’ll never forget my first experience in a commercial kitchen — it’s so funny looking back now. I’d called a few places mainly for interview practice, to be honest. I got an interview and thought, I’ll never get the job, but I’ll go anyway and just cook.
I showed up with all my own ingredients — and even my own pots and pans. Completely ridiculous, really, to turn up to someone else’s kitchen like that. I’d even cooked the dish beforehand so I could talk and cook at the same time, knowing it might go that way.
The chef laughed and said, “You know we do have a kitchen here — is there anything you didn’t bring?”
I cooked for him, then started packing up while he was tasting, trying to make a quick exit so I wouldn’t waste his time. But after tasting, he said, “Based on this, you’re hired.”
I told him, “I have to confess — I’ve never actually worked in a commercial kitchen before. I’ve flipped eggs and worked in hot dog carts during the summer, but not professionally like this. I don’t think I’d be a good hire.”
He said, “If you can cook like this, you’ll be fine. Give it a go.” So we agreed I’d start part-time to see if I could handle it. I quickly went full-time — and the rest is history. He really took a risk on me and gave me my first break.
Not long after, I realized how much of the kitchen etiquette my grandma had tried to teach me — the discipline I’d brushed off — was exactly what mattered most in professional kitchens.
When I left Kricket, I joined a seafood-focused restaurant called Westerns Laundry to work under James Mitchell.
I’ve always loved seafood, but training with James took that love to another level. His passion was contagious. He even visited Sri Lanka with his partner and stayed with my grandparents — an experience that reignited my awareness of how exceptional Sri Lanka’s marine produce is. Suddenly, all these connections to home began to fall into place.
With my family’s house and grandparents still in Sri Lanka, I’d always felt a deep connection to the country. After years of working as a chef, I started to feel the urge to do my own thing — and Sri Lanka seemed like the perfect place to do it.
The vision for Club Ceylon began with the idea of being close to where the fishing boats docked, so I could access the freshest seafood possible. I wanted to build my own network here, rooted in sustainability and great local produce.
Logistically, Sri Lanka is a different world from England. Back in London, seafood was sold before it even landed — big wholesalers would buy everything through online auctions. Here, it’s much more hands-on. You go to the market yourself, or you have someone go for you. And you can’t always get what you want — it depends entirely on what the fishermen catch that day.
The goal was to create a direct connection with the fish market so our food could stay seasonal and our sourcing more transparent. We’re constantly visiting the markets, seeing what’s available and what’s priced well, and working with local fishermen who have an incredible, unwritten knowledge of the sea. Many of them have spent their entire lives in these markets — they understand the rhythms of the ocean and what’s coming next.
BUILDING A TEAM
The best method to building a good team is finding people who really want it — people who truly want to be chefs. It can’t just be about the money; it has to come from love. This isn’t an easy job, and it never has been. Nobody spends all day on their feet in a hot kitchen just for a paycheck. You need a connection with food to cook well — it’s such a sensory craft.
I tell my chefs all the time: “Here’s the recipe, but it won’t always work. You’re the one who makes it work. The limes this week won’t taste the same or have as much juice as the ones next week. You’ve got to taste, adjust, and really understand your ingredients.” This isn’t something you learn from a course or a textbook. It’s an experience-led job.
I like training people from the beginning so they don’t fall into bad habits and can see the full process — from purchasing and cleaning to cooking and serving. It’s important they understand the whole line: how the fish arrives, how it’s baked, plated, and served. That’s how you build real, practical knowledge.
I don’t have any formal cooking qualifications myself. My qualifications are the people I’ve worked for and learned from. When people see my CV, they see the kitchens I’ve trained in — and that speaks volumes about the kind of environments I can thrive in. It also helps me understand what kind of chefs come from those kitchens.
The culture here in Sri Lanka is very different from what I trained in — much more laid back, which can be lovely, but also a challenge. In a kitchen, you need that fifth gear. Sometimes there are only ten guests, but other nights fifty show up without warning, and everyone has to switch into high gear immediately.
Training is one thing, but they have to take that training on and own it. I have a “make it nice or make it twice” rule — it teaches discipline and the importance of retasting everything. Every guest is a VIP. You never know who’s at your table, so every dish must be perfect and consistent.
We’re not in a high-footfall area — we’re surrounded by a fishing village, offices, schools, and a church. There’s no real reason for anyone to come here unless they know us. It’s a destination restaurant, and people even drive an hour from Colombo to celebrate special occasions. That’s an incredible amount of trust and dedication, and we have to deliver every time.
It’s like being an Olympic athlete. No one sees the training — only the performance on race day. The same goes for the kitchen. People don’t see the prep, the early market trips, the sleepless nights after service, or the staff who call in sick last minute. They only see the final dish.
Just like an athlete on race day, we need to perform. Discipline, integrity, and reliability matter — showing up on time, communicating if you’re unwell, taking responsibility. Those small things make a big difference. That’s why I prefer to train in-house, to shape that mentality from the start rather than having to re-teach it later.
My hope is that when someone leaves here, other employers will see Club Ceylon on their CV and know they’re capable — that they’ve worked in a demanding, high-standard kitchen. That will be their qualification, just like mine was.
I always tell my team: “When you’re young, chase skill, not money.” We provide meals, insurance, and medical support, so I tell them, “Use this time to learn everything you can. You have European-style training right here — you don’t need to go abroad. Your skills are valuable here in Sri Lanka.”
Many chefs are leaving to work overseas right now, but I keep reminding my team — this is the moment to stay. Demand is high, and skilled chefs are in short supply. Stay, learn, and become one of those chefs who’s in demand not just for your cooking, but for your discipline, your attitude, and your ability to lead.
You can take shortcuts in many things, but that doesn’t mean you should — especially not in cooking. There are no shortcuts to becoming a good chef.
Being in a kitchen takes discipline, skill, and structure. You have to follow the rules because you’re working closely with others in a confined space — using the same tools, following the same systems, getting every order right. It’s regimented, but without that structure, there’s no creative freedom. You earn creativity by first mastering discipline. If your prep isn’t done properly, you’ll never have the time or clarity to create freely.
It goes back to the idea that no one sees what happens behind the scenes — only the final plate. You can make complex dishes, but only if you’ve done the prep. Prep time is everything when you’re growing as a chef. I remember struggling with it early on — those endless prep lists that felt impossible to finish. Every time I caught up, my head chef would add more dishes or more prep.
There was a guy named Chris Welch who came to interview at Western’s Laundry, where I was working. Before he arrived, we were writing his prep list for the next day. I looked at it and said to the sous chef, Jack Williams, “Could you even do this?” Jack said, “Yeah, I could — but nothing would be labeled.” I was off the day Chris came in, but the next morning I rushed in asking, “Did he do it?” And they said, “He did.” I couldn’t believe it. It was a level of capability I couldn’t yet imagine — but I wanted to reach it.
That’s what I think is missing in our cheffing culture here — that sense of aspiration and adrenaline. The feeling of, Did he do it? Can I do it? Will I be ready for service? What new thing will chef throw at me today? What will I learn next? Those questions drive you — they light that fire to become great.
I remember being in those kitchens with guys like Ado and feeling frustrated that he could handle those lists when I couldn’t. James used to tell me, “It takes time, Liz — there are no shortcuts.” He was right. You have to work hard and you get faster. One of the best tricks in the kitchen is timing yourself — how long it takes to cut 20 onions, or roll five kilos of pasta, and then how long it takes next week or next month. If your time doesn’t improve, you’re not pushing yourself.
It’s not just about speed, though — it’s about efficiency and organization. That’s what great cooking really comes down to.
And it’s not about how good you are, but how good you want to be. How much do you really want it? Are you willing to put in the time and effort?
I tell my team, “Other than the last few kitchens you’ve worked in, I don’t care about anything else. I don’t care if your parents divorced or how much money you have. What matters is whether you want to learn, whether you want to be here, and whether you truly want to become a chef. That’s all that matters.”
We’ve built a great team here — a mix of people from all kinds of backgrounds, but everyone shares one thing in common: dedication to the craft. And that’s what makes a powerful team. It’s not about where you come from, what school you went to, or what box society puts you in. None of that matters here.
Today’s media has definitely had an impact on the culinary world and I think that, because of it, we’ve lost some of the romanticism of restaurants. Sometimes I scroll through Instagram and feel like I’ve already been there — like I’ve eaten the dishes before even stepping inside. There aren’t many surprises anymore. People often message us asking, “What’s the menu today?” I get it — it’s nice to know what to expect. But sometimes it’s better to let the magic happen: to arrive, see what’s on, and have that spark of surprise — Oh wow, I didn’t know that was on today.
The same goes for being a chef. The job’s been so glamorized that I’m not sure it helps newcomers. People see the cookbooks, the TV spots, the spotless chef jackets. But they don’t see you at the 32°C fish market at dawn when you can barely keep your eyes open while you’re standing there amongst hundreds of people pushing their way through to get fish. Or the mornings when 20 kilos of fish arrive and someone’s called in sick, leaving one chef to clean it all.
That’s the reality — the pressure, the problem-solving, the teamwork. Those moments teach you your fifth gear. I can train technique, but that drive, that resilience, has to come from within.
You have to go through a lot to make it in this industry, and that’s not shown enough. When people kept asking me if The Bear was accurate, I finally had a moment to watch it — and yes, that’s exactly what it’s like. Things go wrong constantly, not everyone works at the same pace, and you just have to make it happen. It’s chaotic and exhausting, but it’s also exhilarating. I sometimes feel sad that many younger chefs might not experience that same adrenaline.
There’s a kind of pirate glamour in knowing you can survive it — being deep in the weeds and still coming out thinking, Yeah, I did that. That’s when you become a real chef — when you apply what you’ve learned, take initiative, and make sure every dish is ready, no matter what’s happening around you.
We’ve had times when the electric whisk broke and we hand-whisked the tart together, everyone taking turns. Those moments build teams. They remind you this job isn’t about glamour — it’s about grit.
That’s what I loved about The Bear: it celebrated that side of the job. Every aspiring chef should watch it and understand that there will be days when you think, I can’t do this, but you push through anyway. In a kitchen, there’s no hiding — everyone has to pull their weight.
The kitchen has always been my outlet. Even when life was hard, I could come in, focus, and perform. I had an interview once for a new job where I owned up to a mistake I’d stupidly made in the past, and they said, “We don’t care. Can you cook? Can you perform?” It was an eye-opener.
That’s the beauty of this industry — your background doesn’t matter. No one cares where you’re from, how much money you have, or what mistakes you’ve made. What matters is how you show up today. Are you the one who jumps in when the whisk breaks? Who gives up your 15-minute break to get things done? That’s what defines you.
In the kitchen, you get to reinvent yourself. And that’s what makes it so magical.
In a dream scenario, I’d love to help transform the industry here — for a true chef culture to exist in Sri Lanka.
I’ve mentioned the chefs who inspired me and shaped my path. I remember specific lessons from each of them, and I want my team to have that too. But it has to be more than just a job. That deep sense of craft and camaraderie that exists in kitchens overseas — I want that to take root here.
Even if it starts small — four people — that’s four more than before. And if each of them goes on to teach four or six more, that ripple effect grows. Maybe by the time I’m eighty, we’ll have really made a difference.
We often have guests ask, “How many chefs are in the kitchen?” and when I say three, they can’t believe it. They don’t think that’s possible for Sri Lanka. But it is. I’ll even ask guests to tell my team that, because I don’t think they realize how good they are — they have no benchmark to compare themselves against.
Recently, a hotel consultant visited and was stunned by what our small team could do. I had him explain to one of our waiters that this is how it works in Europe. It means a lot when that recognition comes from someone else, not just from me.
I’d love to see the industry evolve — to build a culture where chefs here create their own dishes and recipes, rather than copying others. But creativity costs time, money, and energy. We experiment constantly, and not everything works. The failed dishes still cost something — that’s part of the process.
What matters is curiosity — asking, What went wrong? How can we make it better? How do we take this to the next level? Those questions are what build great kitchens. It’s not about having a huge staff. It’s about skill, ownership, and the drive to understand your ingredients.
When I opened my own restaurant, one of my biggest fears was not having anyone to learn from. I’ve always thrived under great mentors — I soaked up everything I could from them. The idea of being without that scared me. But those years of learning gave me the confidence to pass it on.
I’m only able to do this because others before me did the same — they taught me, and now it’s my turn to continue that cycle. That’s how this industry grows: through real-world practice. At school you might clean two fish; in a kitchen, you handle them daily — all different sizes, species, and seasons. That’s how mastery happens.
And I’m still learning. One of my favorite things about going to the fish market is talking to the vendors — they’re experts. When I first started, there was a man named Keith who could tell the difference between fish caught three hours ago and fish caught five. I couldn’t see it at first. I’d ask, “What are you seeing that I’m not?” And he’d say, “It takes time. One day you’ll just know.”
A year later, I did. Suddenly, I could see it — the color, the texture, the subtle shift. But you can lose that sensitivity quickly if you’re not there every day. You have to stay close to it — to the work, to the craft, to the source.
CREATING SOMETHING SPECIAL
I’ve always loved a romantic restaurant — that feeling of timelessness. Being able to sit down, share a meal, and not feel like you’ll be kicked out in an hour and a half. Those dinners where you reunite with someone you haven’t seen in years, have real conversations, laugh, linger.
Long lunches and dinners like that are increasingly rare. Rent, staff, and food costs are so high that most restaurants have to turn tables to survive. But we’re not in Colombo — we’re in a fishing village, off the main beach road, far from the tourist spots. Rents are kinder here, though foot traffic is lower.
That trade-off has given us something special: the freedom to create one of those timeless restaurants where guests can truly relax. We can say, “Thank you for driving to get here — the table is yours for the evening.” And you can see it on their faces when we say that — the relief, the ease. They settle in, sip their wine slowly, graze on their food, and just be together. That’s the kind of experience I’ve always wanted to offer.
They say art thrives underground — in places where people can really practice their craft — and I think Club Ceylon is a perfect example of that. I didn’t plan it that way. We ended up here simply because it was all I could afford. The house was nearly derelict. My uncle and I stripped paint, replastered walls — everything we could do ourselves. We outsourced the plumbing and electricity, but during the Covid lockdown, we were sleeping on a mattress on a construction site, building this place by hand.
It was a risk, but also an adventure. Each morning we woke up motivated, full of ideas about what this place could become. Being here, close to the fish market, surrounded by the fishing community — it grounded everything. My prawn dealers are just down the road. This whole neighborhood is part of what makes the restaurant possible.
I signed the lease during Covid, when we thought it was ending — an enormous risk. But thank God for the local community, the people in Colombo, and the expats based here. Without them, the restaurant wouldn’t have survived. Our first year, 95% of our guests were Sri Lankan, and they carried us through.
We built something risky, but something people genuinely wanted — a restaurant tucked away from the noise, a little private, a little hidden. It’s the kind of place where you can sit in a corner with your best friend, talk for hours, and no one even knows you’re there.
Our location — just steps from the fish market — is what makes our sourcing standards possible. It allows us to maintain incredibly high quality while staying deeply connected to the fishermen and the wider fishing community. My business depends on those relationships. A huge part of my work isn’t simply buying seafood — it’s understanding where it comes from, who caught it, and how. That connection is what ensures that everything we serve meets our sustainability standards.
I spend time at the market, having breakfast with fishermen in the tiny coffee stalls across the street, sharing jokes, just being part of the rhythm there. At first, I think they found it strange to see me showing up, especially with my terrible Sinhalese — still terrible, to be honest — but we bonded over our shared love of seafood. I’d get so excited over their catch, and they’d find it hilarious. That common ground helped build genuine trust and long-term relationships, which in turn helped my business grow.
We buy mainly from dayboats — small motorboats that use long lines or small nets, catching just a couple of baskets a day. These are small-scale, low-impact methods that don’t harm the environment. The fishermen take what they need and go home. Buying this way gives me full visibility into the journey of each fish — from the hands that caught it to the methods used at sea. Much of what lands at the market is line-caught — it’s community-based, not industrial. These dayboats use sustainable methods, avoiding the huge trawlers and destructive nets that cause bycatch. It’s a way of sourcing that’s both personal and responsible.
Purchasing power also plays a role in sustainability. We refuse to buy fish of certain sizes or ages if they haven’t had a chance to reproduce — that’s key to keeping stocks healthy. We stopped buying rays entirely after I learned more about their species — their long gestation periods, slow maturity, and lack of local data make them extremely vulnerable. Until there’s better management and monitoring, I won’t buy them.
We see ourselves as premium buyers. We pay fairly for export-quality seafood and make it clear to fishermen why we won’t buy certain things. That kind of communication is important — but it shouldn’t just be us. We need other restaurants to do it too. The more awareness we build, the better.
Right now, I’m working with the Sri Lankan Environmental Fund to help educate others about sustainable seafood — not just restaurants, but everyday buyers and consumers. Real change happens when everyone along the chain starts caring — from the fisherman to the diner.
I hope our guests at Club Ceylon understand the value of what they’re eating — and that they start asking other restaurants the same questions: Where is this fish from? How was it caught? The more consumers care, the more the industry will evolve.
CLUB Ceylon recently collaborated with the Lanka Environment Fund to create a responsible-sourcing brochure—now a free, public resource for anyone purchasing in Sri Lanka.
We have incredible seas here. We want them to thrive, to keep producing beautiful seafood for generations. If more people are willing to pay a little extra for responsible practices, that impact will ripple outward — until sustainability becomes the standard, not the exception.
It’s been quite the challenge sourcing products from outside Sri Lanka, and it wasn’t in the initial plan to do so. Originally, the idea was to serve local Sri Lankan seafood with local ingredients — modern Sri Lankan cooking using European techniques. In its simplest form: beautifully cooked local fish, lightly seasoned, not covered in curry — grilled, pan-fried, and showcasing traditional flavors in a fresher style.
Those flavors came from my childhood, inspired by my grandparents and great-grandparents. But when we opened during Covid, there was zero tourism, and Negombo relies heavily on it. I had no local reputation, no qualifications from Sri Lanka — only experience from London — and I’d poured everything into this place. I realized no one was going to drive out here for “modern Sri Lankan” food when others were already doing it.
So I thought, let’s do what no one else is doing. There weren’t any European-style seafood restaurants here. Let’s cook like they do in Spain or on the Cornish coast — fresh, simple, honest food. The produce here is incredible; often all it needs is lemon, olive oil, and salt. So we focused on letting the ingredients speak for themselves — and it worked.
Of course, that came with challenges. Good olive oil is nearly impossible to find here — most are blends, not pure. After paying so much for high-quality seafood, it felt wrong to compromise on something so fundamental. Thankfully, a friend who owns Italian restaurants in London now helps us import authentic olive oil, and it’s made a huge difference. Guests constantly comment on it.
If people are going to take the time and spend the money to drive out here, we owe them the very best. All our seafood is sourced from Sri Lanka — if it isn’t, it’s clearly noted on the menu — and as many ingredients as possible are local. Only essentials like paprika and olive oil are imported.
My favorite dish to make at Club Ceylon is the ceviche, because there’s no recipe for it. No quantities, no measurements. You just have to taste it — and that’s real skill.
We use seasonal fruits, but most often it’s star fruit. It has this crisp, apple-like flavor — a little sweet, a little sour, a little tart — with a beautiful texture. We pair it with emperor fish, a local white fish called Meevetiya, along with cucumber and onion. Then we mix it with coconut milk that we squeeze ourselves — we grate fresh coconut, soak it in water, and press out the milk. Finally, there’s fish sauce, lime juice, and coriander.
From there, it’s all about adjusting — and then adjusting again. I tell my chefs, “Keep tasting until you reach the point where you want to drink it. That’s when it’s perfect.”
I love that dish because it demands intuition. I always tell the team on the cold section: once you can make that ceviche perfectly every single time, you’ve mastered the section. It’s all about taste.
The limes this week won’t taste like next week’s. The coconut milk might be creamier or thinner depending on who made it. That’s where art meets skill — when you can adapt to those changes and still deliver the same perfect flavor every time.
THE BIGGER PICTURE: RECOGNITION FOR SRI LANKA’S CULINARY SCENE
We don’t have any kind of restaurant award system here in Sri Lanka, and something like that would be incredibly impactful. It would give independent restaurants the recognition they deserve, while also creating a platform that includes everyone — from small eateries to hotel restaurants alike.
Something like that would also help strengthen the cheffing culture here — giving both new and seasoned chefs a better sense of where they’re applying, how established certain places are, and what they can aspire to. It would give them something to aim for, something to dream about. I’d love for young chefs to think, I want to work at one of the top 50 restaurants in Sri Lanka. That kind of recognition could really inspire them to stay and build their careers here.
Being able to say you’ve worked at an outstanding restaurant alongside international chefs — that’s powerful. Right now, many people go straight into hotel kitchens because it’s easy and secure. Those environments are great for learning the basics, especially in large teams, but there’s also a lot to be said for working in smaller, more challenging settings where you grow fast.
Having a national award system could support the whole industry. It would help aspiring chefs and waitstaff know where they’re applying and what to strive for, while also recognizing the people who are opening new restaurants and pushing boundaries.
From the government’s perspective, it could also support tourism goals. A national restaurant list would help visitors discover where to eat across the country — even in lesser-known areas like our small fishing village. People come to see the fish market, but they may not know our restaurant exists. We open for lunch and dinner — not during the busy 7 a.m. market hours. Marketing is expensive for small businesses like ours — even hiring someone to make social media videos can cost a fortune, and those costs inevitably get passed on to customers, which goes against our goal of keeping our food accessible to everyone.
A national restaurant award system would not only guide visitors toward great local food experiences, but also help us move away from depending solely on international accolades. It would shine a light on what’s happening here — and celebrate it from within.
Leaving Without Losing Home
Humans Of The Kitchen
Migration reshaped life but never identity or flavor.

Tatiana Mora
Food was always the language of care in my life. I grew up watching the women in my family cook without recipes, tasting with their eyes closed, seasoning by feel rather than by measurement. Meals weren’t rushed or transactional. They were rituals. A simple dish could bring people together, soften difficult conversations, and create a sense of safety. Very early on, I understood that food was more than nourishment. It was memory, culture, and love. That understanding stayed with me and quietly shaped everything that came after.
Before fully committing to the kitchen, I explored other paths that taught me discipline, responsibility, and how to work with people. Those experiences helped me understand structure and leadership outside of food, but they also made something very clear: I needed a life rooted in creativity and service. Cooking was the place where those two worlds met. It taught me how to communicate without words, lead with empathy, and hold space for others.
I was formally trained in culinary arts, but the kitchens I’ve worked in are my true schools. I began my career at the Hotel Escuela de Venezuela and later worked at Disney’s Polynesian Resort. Seeking deeper technical training, I moved to Catalonia, where kitchens like El Bulli and Gaig taught me discipline and absolute respect for ingredients.
From there, my journey expanded across Latin America and the Caribbean. I worked professionally in Mexico and Barbados, experiences that sharpened my technical foundation and broadened my perspective. The rest of my travels — through Argentina, Peru, Chile, and Colombia — were dedicated to culinary exploration. I immersed myself in markets, spoke with producers, cooked alongside locals, and observed traditions firsthand. Each place deepened my understanding of culture, intuition, and adaptability in a different way.
Eventually, I returned to Venezuela to open my first projects, Paprika and Yantar. Those years were intense and formative. They were built on hard work, recognition, and a deep belief in what Venezuelan cuisine could be. At the same time, the country was changing. Between 2012 and 2014, insecurity, political instability, and motherhood shifted my priorities. In 2015, we decided to leave Venezuela in search of safety for our children. That choice reshaped my life, but it never separated me from who I am or where I come from.
The first time I stepped into a professional kitchen, I was struck by the intensity. The heat, the speed, the hierarchy. It was both intimidating and exhilarating. That environment taught me humility and resilience. It showed me that talent alone is never enough. Consistency, teamwork, and presence matter just as much.
Like many cooks, I spent my early years exhausted, self-doubting, and under pressure to prove myself. Kitchens can be unforgiving spaces. I learned to survive by staying curious, asking questions, and slowly trusting my own voice. Persistence became my strongest skill. I learned that growth doesn’t come from rushing, but from showing up every day and doing the work with intention.
What keeps me inspired is nature, ancestral knowledge, and the possibility of creating spaces of care through food. During difficult moments, I return to why I cook in the first place: connection, healing, and culture. Inspiration has always been my anchor when the kitchen feels overwhelming.
One defining moment was cooking for someone who shared that a dish brought them back to their childhood. It was a powerful reminder that food carries memory and emotion. That experience reinforced my responsibility as a chef and deepened my commitment to cooking with intention.
My philosophy in the kitchen is rooted in respect. Respect for ingredients, for people, and for process. I lead with empathy and clarity, believing that food made with purpose carries a different kind of energy. Creating an environment where people feel seen and valued is just as important as what ends up on the plate.
There were moments in my life when the kitchen became my refuge. Shared meals after long shifts, quiet understanding between cooks, and collective effort helped me through personal challenges. That solidarity made the work meaningful and reminded me that, at their best, kitchens are families.
I’m proud to have built spaces that reflect my values. Places where food, culture, and wellness intersect. Each project represents growth, courage, and staying true to my vision, even when it wasn’t the easiest path.
I love the creativity and sense of family that restaurant culture can offer. I also know its darker side. Burnout, imbalance, and systems that ignore mental and emotional well-being have been normalized for too long. Excellence has often been confused with suffering. I believe a kitchen loses its soul when it forgets the humanity of the people who sustain it.
At MITA, my business partner and I are actively working to change that. We are building a more conscious kitchen rooted in empathy, clear communication, and respect for natural cycles. Sustainability starts with people. Leadership, for me, is about care for the team, the ingredients, and the energy we bring into the act of cooking. Cooking can be an act of healing when it’s done with presence and harmony.
Venezuela shaped me. It taught me resilience. I want my country to believe in itself again and for its cuisine to be recognized for its ancestral wisdom. Being the first Venezuelan woman to earn a Michelin star is not just my achievement; it belongs to the entire MITA team. It reminds me that dreams come true when they’re guided by purpose and faith.
Food is still my language. Cooking is still my way of caring. And every dish is still a bridge — between past and present, memory and possibility, spirit and nourishment.
Photo credits to @reylopezphoto_
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
Fermented vegetables. They taught me patience and transformation.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Simple rice and beans.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
Anything wasteful or purely performative.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
A nonstop service with minimal staff.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
Teamwork, focus, and breathing.
6. What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
Protect your mental health and stay curious.
7. What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
Cabbage—versatile, nourishing, ancestral.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
A seasonal, vegetable-forward plate rooted in Latin American flavors.
About Your City!
Washington, D.C., USA
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
In Washington, D.C., I’d start with breakfast at a local café, explore farmers markets, visit a neighborhood taquería for lunch, and end with a thoughtful dinner highlighting seasonal, produce-driven cuisine. Culture, history, and food would guide every stop
The Archaeology of Flavor
Humans Of The Kitchen
From firehouse tables to ancient ruins, the kitchen was always home.

Corie Greenberg
I grew up in a firehouse without realizing it. Both of my parents were firefighters, and the department was the center of our lives. Food mattered there in a way I didn’t fully understand until much later. It was recovery, ritual, community. Recipes were passed around like secrets, specific to stations and shifts, and somehow they always made their way home. I learned early that food wasn’t just fuel. It was how people came together, how they rested, how they took care of each other after hard days.
For a long time, I thought I’d end up somewhere else entirely. Museums, maybe. After high school, while working as a hostess, I went to Florida State University to study Classical Archaeology and History. During college, I joined an archaeological dig in Chianti, Italy, at a pre-Roman site called Cetamura. It was one of those experiences that quietly changes everything. The heart of that dig wasn’t the trenches or the artifacts. It was the kitchen. Our cook was an Italian nonna, and we rotated through kitchen chores with her. I barely spoke Italian.
On my first day, she was talking animatedly, pointing at a bowl, and I just smiled and nodded, completely lost. She shoved the bowl toward my face until I inhaled deeply. White truffles. I had never tasted them before. That night’s meal unfolded course after course, and everything happened around that table. Planning, laughing, drinking too much wine, and figuring out how to get more wine without our professor noticing. Looking back, that tiny cucina was the center of everything.
When I came back to the States, I started working at a small vegetarian and vegan café. That’s when things really opened up. By my senior year, I was applying to culinary school and taking hospitality classes as electives, quietly letting go of the museum path I thought I was supposed to follow.
My first real kitchen wasn’t glamorous. Technically, it was PF Chang’s, where I was too scared to yell “corner” and knocked over a tray of food and a food runner in one move. But the kitchen that changed me was my stage at Blue Hill at Stone Barns. Until then, kitchens had felt almost homey. Folk music playing, small burners, familiar rhythms. Walking into Blue Hill was intimidating in a way I still feel in my chest when I think about it. I spent most of the shift upstairs in pastry, picking grapes. Mountains of them. Later, I was asked to observe service.
The energy of that line was overwhelming. I poked holes in cranberries so they wouldn’t explode while cooking and stood there absorbing everything. I didn’t just want that internship. I needed it. It was fifteen weeks that completely reshaped me. The first month was brutal, then something clicked. The intensity, the expectations, the people, especially the people, changed how I move through kitchens and life. Even now, voices from that time still guide me.
The hardest part of this career hasn’t been the workload. It’s been boundaries. Kitchens have a way of consuming everything. Your time, your identity, your sense of self. For a long time, work was the whole picture. I’m still learning how to let it be important without letting it be everything.
What keeps me inspired is the people around me. Collaboration is everything. When creativity is built into a kitchen’s foundation, inspiration doesn’t dry up easily. And when it does, I talk it out. Ingredients, old dishes, ideas half-formed. Pastry feels a lot like ballet to me. There are no new steps, just new combinations. You work within limits, and the challenge is finding new ways to bend them.
There was a chef from my internship who lives in my head to this day. She corrected me constantly, but always with purpose. “Put that down and use both hands.” I still hear it every time I plate. “Just put it in your mouth and eat it. It’s your job.” That one changed how I approach food entirely. Tasting is part of the work. Always has been.
My philosophy is that you are never not a dishwasher. Leadership means being in it, not above it. If you’re willing to jump into the dish pit, help prep pierogis, clean a table that isn’t yours, people notice. Respect grows from shared work. When you serve your team, they give everything back.
I’ve seen what a real kitchen community looks like. I worked at a restaurant where a pipe burst, flooding the dining room. Everyone was laid off instantly. Management reached out across the city to place every single person somewhere else until repairs were done. I don’t know another industry where that happens.
Success used to mean reviews, awards, and recognition. Now it looks a lot more like it did at the beginning. Making a family meal dessert that people actually fight over. Feeling useful and feeling part of something.
Kitchens are beautiful because they’re communities. They’re also difficult because they demand so much. But something is shifting. Younger cooks are setting boundaries we forgot were possible. Four-day work weeks. No unpaid prep. No fifteen-hour shifts to prove worth. It’s overdue. Balanced teams are better teams.
If I ever open my own space, it will be built on collaboration. Food, art, flowers, fashion, philanthropy, all of it intersecting. Kitchens are already communities. Opening them up and sharing that energy feels like the right direction.
I love this industry deeply, even when it disappoints me. Kitchens are where I belong. They’re flawed, complicated, human spaces. And despite everything, that sense of shared purpose is what keeps me here.
Photo credits:
Cake portrait: Bethany (@d3ath_pr00f).
All other images: Carlos ( @directedbymijo).
Secret Sauce
- What’s the most unexpected ingredient you’ve ever worked with, and how did it change your perspective on cooking?
Wild Angelica. It was one of the first foraged ingredients I worked with under Rebecca Eichenbaum at Agern. It introduced me to a world of produce that wasn’t on my radar. I worked with the same forager throughout my time in NYC. It pushes you to use something thats hyper local, hyperseasonal, and sustainable.
- What’s your “guilty pleasure” meal?
Late night Diner. Corned beef hash (from a can only), scrambled eggs, toast & a Mexican Coke.
- A food trend that you hate and why?
I think we’ve moved past it, but super glutenous desserts like a milkshake topped with cotton candy, M&M’s, chocolate sauce, whipped cream, and gold… like, why? More isn’t always more. Except on those hyper-decorated cakes with all the piping, keep those COMING.
- What’s the craziest shift you’ve ever worked in the kitchen?
Some time in early 2018, Upper West Side, NYC.
5. What happened, and how did you manage to get through it?
In my first Exec Pastry Chef job, I was working crazy hours. First in, last out, 7 days a week type of thing. I had one cook; it was a tasting-menu restaurant: palate cleanser, pre-dessert, dessert, plus 4 à la carte desserts and 6 petit fours. Anyway, I had one cook and finally got a day off. So I was out in Central Park enjoying my day when I got a phone call from work (which I obviously ignored), then I got two more, and finally answered. My cook was throwing up all over the private dining room, and I had to come in. I can’t really tell you how I got through it, the night was really a blur with lots of help from a Sous chef, or two and the garde manger team, probably.
- What tips would you give to other cooks and chefs to help them navigate their culinary careers and find peace amid the chaos of the kitchen?
I think the best advice is some I don’t exactly follow, but am trying to implement.. create boundaries and stick to them. The precious time you have after work, or before work, or your day off: do not text, call, or read the e-mail. Everything can wait until your next shift. The kitchen is a community, rely on them to make the right call during your absence. Protect your time outside of work; it’s sacred.
- What’s an underrated ingredient and why?
This is particular to pastry: salt. Salt everything – every component, every sub-recipe, the final dish. It highlights the flavors you’re marrying together & keeps the palate from sugar fatigue.
8. What’s a must-try dish from your kitchen or the one you’re proudest to have prepared?
Must try: Banoffee Bostock at Bicyclette Cookshop (developed for a pop up with my friends at Winner a few years ago) – it’s the best breakfast for dessert – house brioche soaked in toffee syrup, coconut frangipane, ripe bananas, served warm & finished with cold lime whipped cream, brioche croutons and, of course, flaky sea salt.
Most proud: Oatmeal Cream Pie for Thank You, Kindly Cookshop. I ate more Little Debbie Oatmeal Creme Pies as a teen than is healthy…like way more. Somehow, I topped it? I’m not the one to openly brag, but this cookie is it.
About Your City!
Naples, Florida
- If Anthony Bourdain or a chef came to your city, what would be the perfect tour itinerary from breakfast to dinner?
So they’d have to come early February to Naples, it’s peak season, so hotels are more expensive and Airbnbs are scarce… but it’s also the Everglades Seafood Festival.
Have a gas station breakfast – grab a cheap cup of coffee (if you’re into that) and a dirty sandwich, get in the car and drive 2 hours south on US 41 to Everglades City.
Get there early because parking is always limited. Spend the day going through the festival, eating local seafood from multiple vendors, drinking some locally brewed beer, and listening to live music.
When you’re done, head back north to Naples, grab a bottle of wine (and maybe a snack) from Nat Nat (Natural Wine Bar). Grab to-go cups, and park it at the beach for a South Florida Sunset.
End your day at North Naples Country Club – a local dive with great bar food. Stay and close it down, find your way home.










